I was going out with someone for 4 years and he used to hurt me alot... He cheated on me etc.....we havnt been together now for 4 years now.... I do still speak to him now and then and he keeps bringing the past back up and keeps saying sorry for what he did to me, saying he loves me and wants to get back with me etc....Iam with someone else now who i have been with for 3 years and i love them to peices my problem is why ami still having dreams about my ex and me and him getting back together..?? i dont love him and i dont want to get back with him....I dont want these dreams anymore it is messing up my head. I have searched google asking why iam having these dreams about my ex and i have read it is because you still love them, want to get back together with them or find someone else like them. I know i dont want anyone like him as for what he did to me. By the way he was my first love.